Okayest Mom Ever.

Are you tired of it yet too? Tired of chasing a life standard that social media tells you will increase your happiness or fulfillment? Are you tired of chasing the shiny object or the greener grass? Have you discovered yet that the grass is greener where you water it? No, just me? Cool cool. Then no problem l l’ll just keep creating content on this little part of the internet for the women who seek purpose & impact OVER income as the defining factor for the identity and worth. Don’t bother following if that’s not your vibe. This ain’t your average millennial social media account. 😉 Note: non trending audio was used for this post because I’m a rebel like that.

SOCIAL SELLERS LISTEN UP: Templates, trends, formulas - all of it is getting real stale and boring. And missing the BEST part of what will SELL…YOU. But before the introvert in you goes scoffing off with excuses (fears) that you don’t want to be an “influencer” - I know that you DO want to make money to fund the dream in your heart…otherwise you wouldn’t be here. That’s why you started this online game - you found a product that you loved & you saw this as a viable vehicle for more. Except all those girls online made it look easy, and now you’re feeling like it’s actually NOT. 😩 What if I told you we don’t have to overcomplicate it? Making sales online could be as simple as telling a story. And not just any story, but YOUR story. What if learning the skillset of telling parts of your story - what led you here, why you started, things you’ve learned & had to overcome, tough patches, ongoing struggles & occasional weird stuff or celebrations - that all of that is actually what makes for GOOD content? People don’t want (or need) just another influencer on their feed, and frankly you throwing up a post because “you should” isn’t going to cut it either. Even if it matches your squares aesthetic. 🤪 If you can make someone FEEL SOMETHING (not just numb out) with your stories, you will develop the trust required to influence consumer behavior. Felt emotion in a story is a KEY element to building content that connects. Grab my free Content that Connects download & walk thru the prompts that help you determine the gold from the fool’s gold - worthy content for you to begin building, and connecting online (with strangers no less!) with the stories that you tell. Skip over the pretty aesthetic & go right for the heart. Comment GUIDE below and I’ll send you the link to my free download.

🍷AND☕️ LOVERS LISTEN UP: I remember when I first Googled all the FDA approved ingredients in wine. 😳🤢 I had already cleaned up my skincare, began buying organic produce, and was slowly but surely unraveling the string it felt like of hidden ingredients in our everyday products. Hadn’t ever stopped to think about wine. And def hadn’t even thought about coffee until recently too! (There’s MOLD in my folger’s - that doesn’t sound like the best part of waking up!) Honestly, scouring ingredients & keeping up with it all is exhausting with 3 kids. It’s why when I find a brand I can trust, I tell people. It’s one way us crunchy-ISH moms can help each other out. Because sure, I could prob walk an extra mile to account for added sugar in wine, but ain’t nothing saving my insides when the glyphosate they use to spray those grapes has its way in my bloodstream (if you haven’t listened to the RFK Joe Rogan pod episode yet on glyphosate and the havoc it’s wreaking on our bodies & food supply - it’s a must)! Happy to pass along the clean-crafted ☕️🍷goodness to you tho. There’s a fun 90 second AI generated quiz that will match you up with the best wines in the cellar specifically for your tastebuds. Each wine is without pesticides, synthetic additives & give full nutrition facts for each glass. Just comment WINE below and I can send you the link - you know, crunchy ish mom friend to crunchy ish mom friend. 😉 Or if you’re like umm I have A LOT of people I could tell about a wine that won’t leave you feeling like 💩 because you got coffee & wine lovers in your circles for days - well then, I got a diff link for you. We can get to that later tho - first, you gotta try the wine & see how different you FEEL! Comment WINE and Rosie the Wine Robot will do the dirty work of sorting thru the cellar for us! 👇🏻

Where me Enneagram 3’s at - this is something we struggle with right? The feeling to EARN our credibility, to ACHIEVE greatness and we measure it oftentimes based on praise (or likes, views, comments). The problem that I have learned the hard way time and again is that when we choose to use the world of social media to validate the value or worth of what we create, then we surely have built our foundational on sand. Because if you live for the applause, then you will die by the (lack of) applause. Create because you are called to create. Share because you have a message and story worthy of sharing. Show up because you have a conviction to help someone just like you be better, do better & live better. As a fellow sister in the trenches with you, let’s commit that if you see this post, or someone shares it with you, that at least for today you will show up & create simply for the joy of creation. That the negative comments or the celebrations will be your thermometer of value & worth but rather your ability to help a person or liberate yourself. This is what will keep you in the game (and we need you). It’s what will help you remain impactful in all that you do, knowing your gifts were meant to be shared - regardless of the amount of people who cheer you on, or who try to cut you down. Keep sharing sister - your voice, your sorry, your product - it matters. 🩷💪🏼